go have a home water birth

my cousin is always trying to prove she is better off financially and smarter with men then me, She got herself knocked up to this bloke who runs a farm and all it looks like to me is he has her doing all the hard yakka around the farm. the land is worth a bit and I think once again she wants mother and grandmothers money to help her out as usual. She seems to be two and throe about how to have the baby, natural home birth with water and a doula because she has had so many babies and she should be expert at it by now and my guess is this one will be out quicker then she thinks. I don't want her coming over to here for check ups and scans she could have done there, and I don't want her at the local or any of the city hospitals when she has money to go to better locations if need be. I don't want her in my territory. She will only bring it around and I will have to say how great the child is when what am I supposed to say anymore to her antics? what I would like to say isn't so nice.The guy she is with has been in acting soap operas on tv and he has delivered heaps of animals so why doesn't he do it or hire a midwife to go over to do it. Its not like it will be a big baby anyway. he is a druggy and not interesting to me so the chances are it will be a quicker birth as its her 4th. she thinks he is a step up but she is stuck out in middle of nothing place as a friend said to me "oh, that place, that is the joke that people go there to die, because there is no life there" and my friend has been everywhere, I wish she would take me somewhere with her next time and help me get a job to be honest its great hearing all her holiday stories over the world. my friend is more of a genuine person then my cousin is and I swear she loves me more. I don't care what my cousin thinks of me. Just so long as she doesn't destroy my life with my medical husband and my career and what i am studying. I just don't care what she does so long as she does not get in my way. sure she worked as mystic to the soap stars for money for her drugs and keeps "promixing" to change. but "promixing" don't mean much to me but a lie.

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emkeooolq Family April 03, 2019 at 10:01 pm 0 0